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Will
Posted 2010-05-01 3:22 PM (#122646)
Subject: Tips to stay motivated


Hi everyone,

I'm new to the forum. Been practicing Ashtanga yoga for about 4 years. I go through phases of lowered activity--sometimes when things are chaotic in my life and I'm feeling down I only do a set once a week. It's ironic, because those are the times when you need yoga the MOST, and I know it.

I was wondering if anyone had some helpful tips to stay motivated. One thing I've noticed: merely reading about yoga is often enough get me in the mood to do it again. Anything else?

I was also wondering how many of you out there follow the teachings down to the letter. For example: ideally, a practcioner of Ashtanga yoga should give up tobacco, alcohol, sweets and even abstain from sex during certain times in the calendar.

I respect those guidelines, but I admit I don't think I could follow them all. Becoming vegetarian has had such a huge impact it's beyond words, but I don't think I can give up beer I have cut down my drinking a lot, though, and I can totally see the significance. I don't feel "clean" enough to do yoga if I've been drinking the night before. And if I go a whole week without booze, I feel so purified that the yoga comes much more easily and naturally.
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vibes
Posted 2010-05-01 4:08 PM (#122647 - in reply to #122646)
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Hi WIll. I love the way you say becoming vege had such a big impact, its beyond words.Thats great for you,animals,the environment and general good in the world. I personally recommend freedom is important. Some yogis smoke chillums, some have sex. Some have sex without ejaculation and control. I would suggest chilling out and enjoying lifes ups and downs as much as poss, while becoming more aware of yourself during work, walking etc, which is like doing hours of yoga a day as opposed to a class here and there. Have fun!!!!!
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Isola
Posted 2010-05-01 5:32 PM (#122649 - in reply to #122646)
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(As always, English is not my first language, so have patience with me ;) ).

I lost my yoga practice due to injury, sickness, stress and alot of other things. What made me find my way back was that I re-discovered the purpose of yoga, of my life and myself. Due to stress, injury, a case of fairly severe sickness and other things I lost track of my purpose, my reasons for doing what I do.

I don't know if that's something you need to do, but truly searching and maybe finding the purpose for your yoga practice (and yourself, and your life) can give you something to focus on and draw energy from in those phases.

You say that it is those phases you need yoga the most, but why is that? If you find the answer and can form it into something with substance you may have the motivation right there.

About the teachings regarding alcohol and sex and those things, I say as the pirates in "Pirates of the Caribbean"; "They're not actually rules, more like guide lines".

I don't drink alcohol or use tobacco (never have, never will), but celibacy is not for me. Being a vegetarian is something that I aim to be, but at this point in my life it is not conducive for me. Due to some internal organs that don't function properly I have a hard enough time with my diet right now without adding the - what would be a - difficulty to skip meat all together.

I think that whatever we do in this life it should be with a clear purpose, not just because it's suppose to be this or that way. I don't think that you would benefit fully from for example the teachings of celibacy if it's not anchored in your soul and has a clear purpose, then it would just make you unhappy. The teachings of celibacy has a purpose within the teachings, but even though they are in many way universal, we are all individuals. We all have our right to honor our individuality in the way that we see fit, in the way that honor our purpose in life, and ourselfs.

Oh well, I'm going to stop babbling on, but I hope that I helped in some way or another (or at least that it was understandable ;) ).

Best Regards,
Jenny
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Iraputra
Posted 2010-05-02 2:07 PM (#122658 - in reply to #122646)
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I think that one of the most important things that yoga can teach us is to live balanced lives, even in the midst of chaos, conflict, arguments, separation, egoism, distractions, etc., in a crazy world of turmoil, angst, greed, hostility, financial crisis and whatever. And if for a period of your life your days are too hectic and full of education, work, taking care of family and whatnot, maybe more and longer sessions of asana and pranayama practice is not at all what you need, but more good quality sleep and better food with time to enjoy the nutrition might be a lot more helpful in regaining balance in your life, at the moment. Meanwhile, take a deep breath, and take comfort in knowing that all kinds of yoga you could ever wish for will still be there when you find your way back to it, unless all of humanity somehow becomes extinct before that.

 

Here is what keeps me motivated, practicing yoga:

 • Practise together with other students, as often as you enjoy it, or as much as you can afford it and have time for it. Learning with friends and inspiring each other. And ask your teacher about any questions or problems that you might have.

 • Workshops and retreats are a great means to deepen your practice, learning new things or getting back to basics that need refinement, and to get your motivation back on track, for beginners and advanced students alike.

 • Develop your own (home) self practice, with all the routines you like to have in and around it. This is a great way to practice — for some even the best — i.e. without the distractions that any group setting usually has. During holidays or times when the shala is closed you can just keep on practicing.

 • Work towards (or maintain) a daily practice, even if some days that might mean maybe just half an hour of practice. A daily short practice (even 20-30 min) is more beneficial than practicing 2-3 hours once a week, and the more often you practice the more addictive the practice is; this also goes for any other physical practice, like running. If your body wants more practice, it will probably tell you to keep going. And if after doing a few sun salutations, you just don't want to go on, then do the yoga mudra, padmasana (or easier variation), utpluthi and shavasana — that's a full practice on that day — no matter if on other days you just want to go on through more than one series and beyond. It is better to do a short practice well, then a very long practice without good quality breathing, bandha, drishti and safe/proper alignment or adjustments. For most people the trick lies in the simple ability to actually come on to the mat every day, and to make an effort — and then also to realise the benefits of resting days; one day per week, learning detachment from practice. The physical practice of asana and pranayam should not be the most important thing in your life.

 • Read good books on yoga, as you mentioned, and keep practising yoga - practise all limbs of ashtanga, i.e. as much as you know them; of course starting with the infinite lessons on yama and niyama that life keeps throwing at you.

 • Watch documentaries , especially the (3 hour) "Yoga Unveiled" (2004) — www.yogaunveiled.com . Or watch videos of other people practising. I find it very inspiring, and it makes me want to do those asanas too... (like perfect samasthiti and sun salutations; breath initiating movement, with bandhas and drishti, flowing vinyasa... smiling, working on the inside).

Personally, I don't mind following (or ignoring) the tradition of not practicing on new and full moons. There are of course a few not totally stupid reasons for following the tradition about moon days, but I think the case for it is very weak compared to the difficulties it presents for most people in a modern Western society, when it comes to establishing a daily (or close to daily) practice; with extremely stupid working hours, complications of family life and other commitments.

Obviously, I am not very good at the 99 % practice and 1 % theory recommendation that Sri K. Pattabhi Jois is so very famous for. Although a rather slow reader, I would say that I am more of a 50-50 kind of practitioner of Ashtanga, but I think that those of us who are a bit slow to understand may need to consult theory a little more than the average person.

I stopped using tobacco a couple of years before picking up yoga, and once I started practicing yoga my alcohol consumption dropped to next to nothing, and I never cared much for sweets anyway. So even if you start out like a fast-food-eating, smoking, alcoholic, sweet-toothed candyman you might end up a radical health freak after a few years of yoga. However, giving up on sex is probably not gonna happen for a lot of people in this lifetime — maybe in next?

 

What the fourth yama (Brahmacharya) actually means, is not really celibacy, or total abstention from sex, or ... «by means of the mere retention of vital fluid. Becoming one with the supreme Brahman alone is brahmacharya(p. 7-, 2002 edition of Yoga Mala, by Sri K. Pattabhi Jois, 1962 [first edition in English 1999]) Which is of course impossible for most people — what does that even mean (becoming one with God?) e.g. for an atheistic yogi — and especially for beginners and those who are greatly affected by all the romantic activities going on in so many places and minds in modern society, but... «a man [or woman, I presume] can achieve some degree of brahmacharya(Ibid., p. 8) -- «brahmacharya does not mean the holding of vitality, though there is still no room for its squandering.» (Ibid., p. 11)

   «The fourth yama is sexual restraint (brahmacharya). The Rishi Vasishta explains: "Sexual restraint for householders means to have intercourse only with their lawful partners."»...

   «When K. Pattabhi Jois was asked for the meaning of brahmacharya, he used to say it means to have one partner only. The yogic view of a relationship is not to consume another person like an object but to recognize divinity in one's partner.» -- (p. 214, Ashtanga Yoga: Practice & Philosophy, by Gregor Maehle, 2006)

   -- «II.38  When established in sexual restraint [brahmacharya], vitality is gained.

The Indian idea is that the energy usually wasted through sex is transformed and can be used for higher purposes. Sexual energy is seen as capital that can lift us into divine dominion if used properly. Sexual restraint is thought to increase intelligence and memory function.» --

   «The ability to transform and use is the key. If sexual energy is simply suppressed and bottled up, it can turn into hatred and become very dangerous.» -- «The mere suppression of sexuality does not lead anywhere if one does not know what to do with the energy.» (Ibid., p. 221)

So, there are degrees of brahmacharya, and (almost) nobody lives up to the highest degrees of brahmacharya. You should not waste (at least not all) your energy on meaningless things like endless masturbation (with or without pornography), day and night, or having sex with just about anyone without even being in love or caring for the other person. That is basic brahmacharya for me, when it comes to sex; "wise use of energy". And I find it really useful to contemplate all these moral guidelines and realise that «[A]ll of the yamas are intertwined in sequential order and loop back into one another»... «The common link in the chain of the yamas is meditating on karma and taking actions rooted in nonharming.» (p. 55, The Inner Tradition of Yoga, by Michael Stone, 2008)

   «Treated as dogmatic codes, the yamas become limiting and rigid. Being free of self-image through the honest practice of letting go and a deep commitment to others through following through on the yamas opens up room for spontaneity and responsiveness. Who knows what letting go will bring? The yamas are not codes or commandments but simply suggestions that honor the way a wise person lives. One does not get into trouble for breaking a code but rather studies their experience and the effects of their actions»...

   -- «Teaching about nonharming immediately sets students thinking about their practice as both internal and external, which early on cuts off the tendency to create distinction between formal and informal practice. Also, beginning with teaching about nonharming helps students relate to their experience without judgment or the negative superimposition of poor self-esteem. Instead of negatively judging our habitual patterns, we can get to know ourselves with an awareness free of limiting self-judgment.

   After a student is grounded in the principle of ahimsa, we move slowly through each limb, practicing every stage of every limb. Without the underpinning of ethics, practice is separate from the relational world. When the various egoic and inflexible conditions are seen for what they are and eventually transformed, one is capable of much greater intimacy and a fuller involvement with every aspect of experience. Otherwise one can practice great yoga postures while their inner psychological world goes untouched.» (Ibid., p. 53-54)

 

I don't have much of a specific purpose with my yoga practice, it's more about just living my life the best I can, and ideally yoga is potentially a perfect way of life, a lot of methods of living a better life, evolving and getting to know one's true self, empty of form and ego, which is however not very important to me compared to love and hopefully making a positive difference in society in general, little by little, day by day.

And for those about to practise and live a life of yoga, I salute you! Namasté

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Will
Posted 2010-05-02 3:08 PM (#122659 - in reply to #122658)
Subject: RE: Tips to stay motivated


Thanks for your input, everyone.

Just to be clear, I didn't mean to imply that TOTAL celibacy is a tenet of Ashtanga Yoga. Sri K Pattabhi Jois does NOT advocate total celibacy. Rather, he explains that there are more OPTIMAL times for sex (depending of the woman's cycle and also which nostril is open at night) when the act will cause less of a drain on your vitality.

Basically, you can follow this guideline and still enjoy a healthy, happy sex life--thank goodness

Iraputra, I agree that doing a little yoga each day has got to be better than doing an intensive set once a week. Maybe that's what I should do when life is hectic. But I'm concerned about "breaking up" a full set. For me a "full set" is just a basic, beginners set of Surya Namascaa A + B + the standing sequence + padmasana + shavasana (I haven't moved on to the seated sequence yet).

What would you recommend as a "shortened" set?
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Posted 2010-05-02 11:41 PM (#122662 - in reply to #122658)
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Iraputra - 2010-05-02 11:07 AM

I don't have much of a specific purpose with my yoga practice, it's more about just living my life the best I can, and ideally yoga is potentially a perfect way of life, a lot of methods of living a better life, evolving and getting to know one's true self, empty of form and ego, which is however not very important to me compared to love and hopefully making a positive difference in society in general, little by little, day by day.



Exactly!

Yoga (asana, pranayama, meditation) is a systematic way of improving the function of your mind and body so that you can improve health, reduce suffering and better accomplish whatever it is that you want to accomplish in this life. If your body, mind and spirit are in top form, they will perform better, no matter what you do.
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Iraputra
Posted 2010-05-04 2:48 AM (#122679 - in reply to #122659)
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Will - 2010-05-02 3:08 PM
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Iraputra, I agree that doing a little yoga each day has got to be better than doing an intensive set once a week. Maybe that's what I should do when life is hectic. But I'm concerned about "breaking up" a full set. For me a "full set" is just a basic, beginners set of Surya Namascaa A + B + the standing sequence + padmasana + shavasana (I haven't moved on to the seated sequence yet).

What would you recommend as a "shortened" set?


There are numerous ways of modifying and shortening your asana practice. Only your imagination and current strength/flexibility set the limit. However, in Ashtanga Vinyasa Yoga practice you would traditionally always start with Surya Namaskara (sun salutation, five of each, A and B) and end with Padmasana (lotus, or sitting in an appropriate way for you), Utpluthi, and Shavasana — that is a full (short) practice; you may even leave out Utpluthi and do fewer sun salutations. Whatever you add in between makes it a longer practice, that goes beyond the complete beginner's choice. Whatever your short practice sequence is, I would never leave out "taking rest", or Shavasana (corpse p.), aka Mritasana (death p.), called so "because it prepares us for death. It teaches us to completely surrender and let go"... (p. 129-130, Ashtanga Yoga: Practice & Philosophy, by Gregor Maehle, 2006)

The exceptions for not doing sun salutations and vinyasa jumps (or modifying them, like stepping in stead of jumping, and so on) would be because of injury, lack of strength/flexibility, or for women during/around menstruation. If not starting with sun salutations, then I would do some other good warm-up exercise, possibly cat-pose, crunches and child's pose combined with upward dog. Or if you are very tired, starting with Shavasana is just fine, then maybe reclined spinal twist, and whatever you find appropriate on that day. The Ashtanga sequences is not the only way to do yogasana, but I think you always start your asana practice with breathing, Ujjayi...

As you add on the standing sequence, you should also eventually add on the finishing sequence, starting with (modified for most beginners, i.e. bridge p.) Urdhva Dhanurasana. Usually you don't start the seated asanas (Primary Series), before that, but of course only adding Shirshasana (headstand) and such in a safe manner, preferably having a teacher to guide you. Many students are not ready for Sarvangasana etc. until half-way into Primary.

I think you should be somewhat mindful about not slip-sliding into a path of least resistance; only doing asanas that you can do well and avoiding your weaknesses — still approaching these tricky asanas that you find hard in a safe way, improving slowly, is the way to go. Focus on the quality of your breath, and applying correct drishti from early on, more than trying to do the posture with perfect alignment the first time. And also, to include asanas that are very good preparatory postures for those that you find difficult is probably a very good idea. So, how you adapt a shorter practice should be according to your needs. Take advice from others, but think for yourself too and talk with your teacher who knows your practice and has the experience to point the way.

Here is a good web site, with all asanas up to Advanced A, that basically follows the order in which you normally add asanas to your practice in Ashtanga: http://www.ashtangayoga.info/practice/asana-sequences/

David Swenson has composed three useful "Short Forms" (15, 30 and 45 minutes respectively), available both in his book "Ashtanga Yoga: The Practice Manual" (1999), and on DVD: Yoga Short Forms, 2002.

"Over the years people have asked me what to do when there is not enough time to practice a complete series. This is a valid question. We live in a fast-paced world"... "It would be easy for me to simply respond by saying one should just make the time by either rising earlier in the morning or taking time away from other activities. For some people this approach may be appropriate, but it is not feasible to expect everyone to apply such a disciplinary regimen. Setting unreasonable goals creates a recipe for discouragement or self-doubt which may lead to giving up the practice altogether" -- "These routines are also good to use as stepping stones to approach the full series" -- "For many people the shortened versions may also be enough. The important thing to remember is that this is your practice. Create the most suitable routine for your lifestyle"... (p. 254-, Ashtanga Yoga: The Practice Manual; An Illustrated Guide to Personal Practice; The Primary & Intermediate Series plus Three Short Forms, 1999, by David Swenson)

A shorter practice is good/necessary for both adjusting to limited time, and when recovering from illness or injury, but these circumstances call for different approaches. Some people find that fewer breaths per asana, or cutting out the vinyasa between sides in seated, are appropriate ways for them to shorten their practice, particularly when pressed for time that is — though I would not recommend it during times of rehabilitation, or that you do your difficult asanas quickly. Taking your time and breathing slowly/deeply while still maintaining the heat through vinyasa and bandha is generally more supportive. When composing your personal short practice, you should listen to your body and model it to suit your own specific needs.
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Bay Guy
Posted 2010-05-06 10:56 PM (#122736 - in reply to #122679)
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I don't think that sex and yoga have much connection at all, and I find the "yogic advice" on this to be kinda antiquated. No one should smoke tobacco, and you don't need yoga to reach that idea. Alcohol - well, it's a really really bad idea to practice yoga after a couple of drinks: the injury potential is very high. As for being veg, there are a lot of good reasons not to eat red meat (sat fat, cholesterol, links to heart disease and colon cancer, for example; and then there's the utterly ungodly process by which such animals are bred and converted to "food"); but I don't see these reasons as having a direct connection to yoga.

It's easy to do looking for answers and find a whole list of them in some forms or yoga or in religions of various sorts; but I really prefer to think in terms of verifiable terms whenever I can... sorry, I have a hard science background. At the same time, the core idea of yoga - see Sutra 1.1 - is a huge benefit to most of us who live in a stressed, high pressure world.

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Posted 2010-05-07 1:00 AM (#122737 - in reply to #122736)
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Bay Guy - 2010-05-07 10:56 AM At the same time, the core idea of yoga - see Sutra 1.1 - is a huge benefit to most of us who live in a stressed, high pressure world. ... bg

The yoga sutra has been the main guide and motivation to my yoga practice. If I bring a book into my grave this shall be it! I hope to immediately commence practice upon next birth.  BTW, are you referring to 1.1 or 1.2 please? Namaste

 

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Posted 2010-05-08 10:35 PM (#122790 - in reply to #122737)
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Bay Guy - 2010-05-07 10:56 AM At the same time, the core idea of yoga - see Sutra 1.1 - is a huge benefit to most of us who live in a stressed, high pressure world. ... bg

The yoga sutra has been the main guide and motivation to my yoga practice. If I bring a book into my grave this shall be it! I hope to immediately commence practice upon next birth.  BTW, are you referring to 1.1 or 1.2 please? Namaste

 



1.2, thanks.

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Posted 2014-03-13 5:08 AM (#211352 - in reply to #122658)
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Iraputra - 2010-05-02 2:07 PM

I think that one of the most important things that yoga can teach us is to live balanced lives, even in the midst of chaos, conflict, arguments, separation, egoism, distractions, etc., in a crazy world of turmoil, angst, greed, hostility, financial crisis and whatever. And if for a period of your life your days are too hectic and full of education, work, taking care of family and whatnot, maybe more and longer sessions of asana and pranayama practice is not at all what you need, but more good quality sleep and better food with time to enjoy the nutrition might be a lot more helpful in regaining balance in your life, at the moment. Meanwhile, take a deep breath, and take comfort in knowing that all kinds of yoga you could ever wish for will still be there when you find your way back to it, unless all of humanity somehow becomes extinct before that.

 

Here is what keeps me motivated, practicing yoga:

 • Practise together with other students, as often as you enjoy it, or as much as you can afford it and have time for it. Learning with friends and inspiring each other. And ask your teacher about any questions or problems that you might have.

 • Workshops and retreats are a great means to deepen your practice, learning new things or getting back to basics that need refinement, and to get your motivation back on track, for beginners and advanced students alike.

 • Develop your own (home) self practice, with all the routines you like to have in and around it. This is a great way to practice — for some even the best — i.e. without the distractions that any group setting usually has. During holidays or times when the shala is closed you can just keep on practicing.

 • Work towards (or maintain) a daily practice, even if some days that might mean maybe just half an hour of practice. A daily short practice (even 20-30 min) is more beneficial than practicing 2-3 hours once a week, and the more often you practice the more addictive the practice is; this also goes for any other physical practice, like running. If your body wants more practice, it will probably tell you to keep going. And if after doing a few sun salutations, you just don't want to go on, then do the yoga mudra, padmasana (or easier variation), utpluthi and shavasana — that's a full practice on that day — no matter if on other days you just want to go on through more than one series and beyond. It is better to do a short practice well, then a very long practice without good quality breathing, bandha, drishti and safe/proper alignment or adjustments. For most people the trick lies in the simple ability to actually come on to the mat every day, and to make an effort — and then also to realise the benefits of resting days; one day per week, learning detachment from practice. The physical practice of asana and pranayam should not be the most important thing in your life.

 • Read good books on yoga, as you mentioned, and keep practising yoga - practise all limbs of ashtanga, i.e. as much as you know them; of course starting with the infinite lessons on yama and niyama that life keeps throwing at you.

 • Watch documentaries , especially the (3 hour) "Yoga Unveiled" (2004) — www.yogaunveiled.com . Or watch videos of other people practising. I find it very inspiring, and it makes me want to do those asanas too... (like perfect samasthiti and sun salutations; breath initiating movement, with bandhas and drishti, flowing vinyasa... smiling, working on the inside).

Personally, I don't mind following (or ignoring) the tradition of not practicing on new and full moons. There are of course a few not totally stupid reasons for following the tradition about moon days, but I think the case for it is very weak compared to the difficulties it presents for most people in a modern Western society, when it comes to establishing a daily (or close to daily) practice; with extremely stupid working hours, complications of family life and other commitments.

Obviously, I am not very good at the 99 % practice and 1 % theory recommendation that Sri K. Pattabhi Jois is so very famous for. Although a rather slow reader, I would say that I am more of a 50-50 kind of practitioner of Ashtanga, but I think that those of us who are a bit slow to understand may need to consult theory a little more than the average person.

I stopped using tobacco a couple of years before picking up yoga, and once I started practicing yoga my alcohol consumption dropped to next to nothing, and I never cared much for sweets anyway. So even if you start out like a fast-food-eating, smoking, alcoholic, sweet-toothed candyman you might end up a radical health freak after a few years of yoga. However, giving up on sex is probably not gonna happen for a lot of people in this lifetime — maybe in next?

 

What the fourth yama (Brahmacharya) actually means, is not really celibacy, or total abstention from sex, or ... «by means of the mere retention of vital fluid. Becoming one with the supreme Brahman alone is brahmacharya(p. 7-, 2002 edition of Yoga Mala, by Sri K. Pattabhi Jois, 1962 [first edition in English 1999]) Which is of course impossible for most people — what does that even mean (becoming one with God?) e.g. for an atheistic yogi — and especially for beginners and those who are greatly affected by all the romantic activities going on in so many places and minds in modern society, but... «a man [or woman, I presume] can achieve some degree of brahmacharya(Ibid., p. -- «brahmacharya does not mean the holding of vitality, though there is still no room for its squandering.» (Ibid., p. 11)

   «The fourth yama is sexual restraint (brahmacharya). The Rishi Vasishta explains: "Sexual restraint for householders means to have intercourse only with their lawful partners."»...

   «When K. Pattabhi Jois was asked for the meaning of brahmacharya, he used to say it means to have one partner only. The yogic view of a relationship is not to consume another person like an object but to recognize divinity in one's partner.» -- (p. 214, Ashtanga Yoga: Practice & Philosophy, by Gregor Maehle, 2006)

   -- «II.38  When established in sexual restraint [brahmacharya], vitality is gained.

The Indian idea is that the energy usually wasted through sex is transformed and can be used for higher purposes. Sexual energy is seen as capital that can lift us into divine dominion if used properly. Sexual restraint is thought to increase intelligence and memory function.» --

   «The ability to transform and use is the key. If sexual energy is simply suppressed and bottled up, it can turn into hatred and become very dangerous.» -- «The mere suppression of sexuality does not lead anywhere if one does not know what to do with the energy.» (Ibid., p. 221)

So, there are degrees of brahmacharya, and (almost) nobody lives up to the highest degrees of brahmacharya. You should not waste (at least not all) your energy on meaningless things like endless masturbation (with or without pornography), day and night, or having sex with just about anyone without even being in love or caring for the other person. That is basic brahmacharya for me, when it comes to sex; "wise use of energy". And I find it really useful to contemplate all these moral guidelines and realise that «[A]ll of the yamas are intertwined in sequential order and loop back into one another»... «The common link in the chain of the yamas is meditating on karma and taking actions rooted in nonharming.» (p. 55, The Inner Tradition of Yoga, by Michael Stone, 200

   «Treated as dogmatic codes, the yamas become limiting and rigid. Being free of self-image through the honest practice of letting go and a deep commitment to others through following through on the yamas opens up room for spontaneity and responsiveness. Who knows what letting go will bring? The yamas are not codes or commandments but simply suggestions that honor the way a wise person lives. One does not get into trouble for breaking a code but rather studies their experience and the effects of their actions»...

   -- «Teaching about nonharming immediately sets students thinking about their practice as both internal and external, which early on cuts off the tendency to create distinction between formal and informal practice. Also, beginning with teaching about nonharming helps students relate to their experience without judgment or the negative superimposition of poor self-esteem. Instead of negatively judging our habitual patterns, we can get to know ourselves with an awareness free of limiting self-judgment.

   After a student is grounded in the principle of ahimsa, we move slowly through each limb, practicing every stage of every limb. Without the underpinning of ethics, practice is separate from the relational world. When the various egoic and inflexible conditions are seen for what they are and eventually transformed, one is capable of much greater intimacy and a fuller involvement with every aspect of experience. Otherwise one can practice great yoga postures while their inner psychological world goes untouched.» (Ibid., p. 53-54)

 

I don't have much of a specific purpose with my yoga practice, it's more about just living my life the best I can, and ideally yoga is potentially a perfect way of life, a lot of methods of living a better life, evolving and getting to know one's true self, empty of form and ego, which is however not very important to me compared to love and hopefully making a positive difference in society in general, little by little, day by day.

And for those about to practise and live a life of yoga, I salute you! Namasté



Great read buddy, thanks.
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